Thursday, April 28, 2011

A little bit stronger...

Life can throw a few curve balls our way sometimes. I have recently watched a few friends/ family members going through some pretty major transitions. It is hard to watch. I am the type of person to feel that pain right along with them. In the middle of it all, it is hard to feel like you are getting stronger, but sometimes you have no choice but to get stronger. Stronger than even you thought was possible. And while you are going through that pain, circumstance, experience you don't even realize the strength you are gaining. Later you look back and wonder how you made it through that period in your life. But life is a journey, its not a destination, so of course there are going to be curves on our path. Rarely are any of our lives easy. I have a friend that says, whatever you are going through, its hard for you. Someone else may look at your situation and think it is a breeze, or you are better off. But for you in that moment it is hard for you. So, we pull ourselves up. We dust ourselves off and we keep walking. Just keep taking the next step. You are only in this place for a moment. Doors maybe slamming shut in your face, but that means that something else, something better will come along and you have to make room for that something or someone in your life. Hope. Wish. Dream. Cry. Let it all out. I sure am. And one day you will realize that it doesn't hurt quite as much.

1 comment:

~Allyson said...

Love this post...such truth. You are a great friend/family member to be so supportive through the tough times. Love you, Marn!